Stanley’s wife, “… appreciates the changes, she always thanks me for my hard work on the gambling, and we worked hard to clean up the debt in four years…. After the problem, we had to earn more money in a normal way… We took many more part time jobs…. We both worked…. From the time that this happened and I slept beside her, I felt very guilty…. If I didn’t have this problem, she would have a better life…. It was very hard and I would cry… I always think I am not a very good person…. But I thought that the thing I needed to do to correct my problem was to work more hard.”